Help! I like this crush in the other school, he added me on email, and face book, but...what does that mean?

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:


* He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by doing something cool, impressive, or funny.


2. Keep close. Do you ever get the feeling that somebody is in your personal space, so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.


3. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.


* His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.


4. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. Little things like this are a very good sign of a guy liking you.


5. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.


6. Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?


7. Smile - a big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.


8. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't? If so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like you.


9. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls - the conversation doesn't necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.


10. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.


11. Notice his behaviour in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.


12. Dances are a great place to test the waters! During a slow dance he might ask you to dance. Pay attention while you're dancing - do you look at each other, then smile and look away? Does he seem happy to be dancing with you? This is a very good sign! If you ask him to dance and he says yeah it is a good sign, but be aware that some guys just say yes to any girl because they don't want her to be offended.


13. Notice these tell-tale signs:


* If he wants to talk to you all the time,


* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,


* If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,


* If he treats you differently to other girls,


* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.


* If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,


* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,


* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,


* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,


* If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,


* If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,


* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,


* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,


* If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.


* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,


* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,


* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,


* If he talks to you and wants to know how your doing,


* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.








Tips





* If he tries to talk to you, let him.





Always let him be open to you.








Warnings





* Try not to be aggravating!


* Beware of friendly, outgoing, flirty guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.


* Jealousy is not pretty. Avoid it.


* If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way". (Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character).


* Sometimes, a guy will confuse you. He'll flirt with you all year, constantly, every day, smiling, flashing you the peace sign, talking to you, everything, and when you ask him out he'll say no, but when school starts again he'll flirt three times as much, and if you ask him out, he may say no again. Boys are impossible to figure out until it's too late.


* If a guy genuinely likes you he will show, don't go overboard trying to get him to like you.


* Beware - sometimes you might just see what you want to see. You might think he likes you, but maybe he doesn't. Even if he pokes you, teases you, stares at you, there's a chance it's all just you. Try not to be paranoid and bug all your friends or be too overconfident and poke him back. Things like that can be annoying.


* Some guys may act a little like they like you too but sometimes they don't, he may just act (if he knows that you like him) so he doesn't hurt your feelings. If you feel like your situation is like this, just stop. Understand that he doesn't find you interesting, there will be more guys!


* Watch out for the subtle guys. If he asks you something that could potentially be a date but your not really sure, make sure its clear before you agree to it. It can be uncomfortable when one of you thinks you're on a date, and one of you thinks you're not.


* One thing that you definitely need to look out for is, if he's just trying to get to know you better, or if he's just using you, it might seem like he likes you, but sometimes he could be messing around and telling all of his friends that he's just trying to get with you, yet not BE with you.


* If he has a friend talk to you all the time, he get nervous when he talks to you for the first time. You know what that means, he may try to act cool and over do it, so try to accept everything he says and act like you under stand every thing he's saying.

Help! I like this crush in the other school, he added me on email, and face book, but...what does that mean?
He might be interested start up a little conversation and see where it goes.
Reply:It doesnt mean that he loves you ..


But there is a chance too......


Just ask him....frankly.....


I am saying this coz i had a similar experience and he said he just want me as a friend
Reply:hes interested,,,,,duh
Reply:his friendly