I am being a bit childish with a girl who hurt me years ago, as she wants to be my face book friend and I am?

not confirming it, what do I do?It's just that she really hurt me at the time, I know that it was years ago and we are in the same university together but it still hurts when I think about what she did!

I am being a bit childish with a girl who hurt me years ago, as she wants to be my face book friend and I am?
i think you should be more concerned about just letting it go. why hold on to such ridiculous baggage. it's over and done. i mean look at what you just asked, you're in a dilemma over adding someone on face book? that should show you that even though it is childish, that you have been holding onto it for all these years and it needs to be dealt with. weather it be by telling her how bad she hurt you. or realizing that $hit happens, people are *** holes. and that stressing over someone adding you on facebook is a waste of emotion. press deny and forget about this b i tch.
Reply:Don't confirm her then! She's probably not waiting on the other end hoping you'll say yes. Do what you feel is right
Reply:Dont add her, sometimes its fun being childish.
Reply:it is easy to hold grudges and it is hard to let go of them. but it seems like such a long time ago i think it would be silly not to accept her. i mean you are adults now and even if you don't talk you are working along side her at univeristy. unless you still have feelings for her i think you should accept her, its all in the past now and you should start looking forward to the future.





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Reply:You either learn to forgive and move on from your past experience,and more importantly,learn from it for the future,or move on from this girl that caused the hurt that you still can't get over.
Reply:Bin her! Or better still, add her, post the story of what she did to you on her page and on all her friends.. and then bin her!!!
Reply:Grow up dude...............
Reply:Dnt confirm it, grow up an move on ure wasting ure life on her
Reply:What the heach did she do so bad anyways?





It's just facebook, it's not like she want you to be friends again, so you could accept her.





If you still don't want to, send her a message telling her why, and the aact that you can't forgive her.





Cheers.